Love is like a blooming and withering flower, it has its own timing.

The deep love of youth may turn into mutual annoyance later on. Thinking “holding hands when young, growing old together,” but in the end, it’s just a passing dream.

In the beginning, deeply attracted to each other, willing to overcome all obstacles to be together, even if parents oppose the relationship, one must stick to their true feelings, even if it means going against the world.

The start of the story is always touching, but the ending is often regretful!

Promises in love can sometimes be like empty promises. Like exchanging rings during marriage, gazing lovingly at each other, making vows of eternal love.

But time is like a drop of water, constantly dripping on a stone, eventually wearing it down. If love is like warm water, post-marriage life will be sweet. But if after marriage, both forget their initial intentions, this love will eventually be drowned in resentment.

Some people are good at nurturing marriage, warming others’ hearts and moving through time. But some people waste time, leaving both parties exhausted.

In marriage, the fine line between torture and romance, happiness and separation, lies in a single thought.

When two people are together, cherishing each other is something that both should do. When certain phenomena manifest between couples, even if one tries to save the relationship, it’s already too late!

If these three phenomena exist between couples, there’s no need to continue, as being together is just another form of torture.

No Longer Have Feelings for Each Other

The two hardest things in life:

You can’t control someone’s heart, and you can’t control your own.

You can’t control a person’s mind, so you can’t force someone to love you forever. Just like you can’t always control your own thoughts, human hearts are unpredictable. Even in a marriage, you never know what might happen next.

In this world, fate has its own plan.

Feelings are unpredictable, what starts with love may fade over time.

Love can quietly vanish like time passing by. When nothing significant happens in your love, yet you no longer feel the same way, neither of you is at fault.

People’s perspectives change with time, thoughts evolve with age.

Perhaps someone you once deeply loved now feels like a stranger.

In a marriage, when both partners feel this way, it indicates the relationship is nearing its end. They either head towards divorce or continue in a loveless marriage.

Being with someone you no longer love is always torture.

Some individuals will let go at this point, for their sake and their partner’s, seeking their own happiness. On the other hand, some will try to change themselves or their partner, hoping to rekindle love.

But if no action is taken, staying together will remain tormenting for both.

Betrayal

In a marriage, when one betrays the other, significant conflicts arise.

Many relationships end with betrayal.

In some marriages:

One spouse finds someone else, while the other seeks comfort elsewhere, neglecting their children and parents.

For an ordinary person, such actions will hurt those around them. While in certain professions like entertainment, such behavior may be more understandable, in ordinary life, it’s essential to be responsible and lead a good life.

Marriage is not a performance. If you’re not an actor, you must learn to be responsible and lead a good life.

In marriage, never let your thoughts wander, resist temptations. Once you take that step, it’s a slippery slope ahead.

Those who harm their spouse in youth and ruin their marriage don’t live well.

Their separation indicates a challenging future for their next generation.

Family discord can instill a sense of inferiority in their children.

Inability to Communicate

When there’s no common ground, there’s no point in continuing.

If every word your partner says seems meaningless, and vice versa, leading to constant arguments, it’s a clear sign to stop.

If you both recognize this issue but blame each other instead of trying to resolve it, it signifies significant problems in the marriage, and there’s no need to persist.

Happiness is crucial in life. If being with your partner makes you angry and miserable every minute, it’s time to prioritize yourself, learn to let go, and free yourself.

When two people can’t communicate, it means their thoughts are no longer aligned, indicating they’re no longer suitable for each other.

As thoughts evolve with time, when you change, it’s important to understand your partner will change too. Otherwise, the distance between you will grow.

In many old movies, women did household chores while their men pursued education. Later, when men succeeded, they neglected their wives.

Many criticized these men, deeming them ungrateful.

In reality, as a person grows through education and experiences, their perspective widens. While someone confined to household chores may not progress similarly, leading to a growing distance between them.

If these three phenomena exist between couples, it’s a form of torment. Those capable will change this situation, while those who can’t need not endure any longer.