As Gai once said, “If you don’t understand love, you don’t understand life.”

What kind of man truly loves you? Everyone wants to know the answer. In reality, when a man deeply loves you, he will give you various hints. When a man sends you these three messages, it’s a sign that he truly loves you.

Honey, I Miss You

As Maugham once said, “The greatest tragedy in life is not that humans will perish, but that love will suffocate.”

In romantic relationships, when two people are close, they often give each other nicknames, which is a way to express love. In reality, we’re all busy, and no one wants to waste their time on someone they don’t care about.

If a man can spare time to think of you even when he’s busy, it proves that he loves you. Men express love directly; when they miss you, they’ll tell you straight up, and their purpose is to see you.

I recently had a friend share her emotional story with me:

My boyfriend and I have known each other for a year, and we met through friends. At first, he was shy and didn’t know how to pursue girls, so it was thanks to our friends that he got my contact info.

When we first met, we were both awkward and didn’t know what to say. Later, he tried to ask me out for dinner, but we didn’t have much conversation during those times.

After that, I tried to get to know him slowly, and I discovered that he’s a gentle person, just a bit slow to open up.

Now, we’ve been dating for a year, and we’re more dependent on each other. He’s not good at expressing himself, but when we’re together, he has a lot to say. Although he wasn’t romantic at first, I’ve seen him change since we started dating.

He even learned some cheesy lines to say to me every day, which might seem insincere to some, but I know it’s his way of expressing love.

The power of love is indeed great, and I can feel that this man is genuinely loving me.

In reality, there are many ways to express love. When a man expresses his longing for you, it proves that he truly loves you.

Where Are You? I’ll Pick You Up

As Turgenev once said, “Love is the only thing that makes people understand what life and happiness are.”

Men’s words are often deceitful. When a man says he loves you, it doesn’t necessarily mean he truly does. When a man takes action for you, that’s when he truly loves you.

Many men say they love you, but only a few can back it up with actions. When a man takes you out to eat when you’re hungry, accompanies you when you’re tired, and helps you when you’re helpless, that’s when he truly loves you.

Love is a verb, not just words. Sweet talk is nice to hear, but if it’s not backed up with actions, the emotions between you are meaningless.

What Do You Want to Buy? Let Me Know

Although a man willing to spend money on you doesn’t necessarily mean he loves you, a man who’s unwilling to spend money on you definitely doesn’t love you.

Emotions can’t be measured by money, but when a man is unwilling to spend even the most basic necessities on you, it shows that he’s selfish.

Some say there’s no true love in this world, but in reality, true love is hidden in the details.

Love should be beautiful and pure, not consumed by materialism. Giving each other concern is the most basic prerequisite for love.

If a man’s love is just words, then he doesn’t truly love you.

Everyone is selfish, and when emotions collide with reality, you can see a man’s true heart. If a man only says sweet nothings, it’s best to distance yourself from him and not let him waste your youth.

Love is the most beautiful thing in this world, and the emotions between men and women can be very subtle.

A man will weigh the pros and cons when he’s in love, thinking about what kind of girl is suitable for marriage. Only when a man considers you as his marriage partner will he plan you into his daily life.

Love doesn’t need to be forced; all love must come from the heart. A man’s love is not measured by what he says, but by what he does.

A man who truly loves you will give you a sense of security because he can’t bear to see you unhappy. A man who doesn’t love you will only use various excuses and reasons to placate you.

As the saying goes, “Those who love you are afraid of not giving you enough, while those who don’t love you are afraid of giving you too much.” In reality, emotions are like this, and a man’s true heart can be seen from the details. Only a man who truly loves you will give you the above three messages.

Love is not easy, and we should cherish it. I hope everyone can gain their own happiness and feel loved in love.