Genuine liking and love don’t fade with time and distance. Someone who holds you dear won’t let you suffer even a bit, wanting to be with you every minute, embracing, holding hands, kissing you, relishing every moment they can touch you.

In today’s society, long-distance relationships and marriages are common. Some reunions are filled with fiery passion, endless conversations, and unfinished deeds, as if the passion never waned.

On the other hand, some reunions are as cold as ice, with polite nods, a couple of home-cooked meals, a ride to the station, and eyes as calm as water without a ripple.

For those lovers who reunite after a long separation, their initial reactions upon meeting will completely expose the depth of their love for you, showing the following three points:

Eyes sparkling, unable to stop smiling

Three months after their separation, we heard Little Bella complain countless times, “Why aren’t you back yet? It’s been so long.”

Bob was sent by the school for a three-month internship, but for Little Bella, it felt like three years had passed. From their freshman year to senior year, after four years together, their approach to love remained as passionate as ever, undeterred by teasing from friends.

When she went to pick him up at the airport, Little Bella kept looking ahead anxiously, afraid of missing Bob. She kept waving at anyone who resembled him, even if she made a mistake, she wouldn’t stop, still eagerly searching for her Bob.

When Bob emerged, she ran towards him full of energy, and Bob, with a smile on his face, opened his arms to embrace her.

Their eyes were shining as if the world only consisted of the two of them. After hugging, they couldn’t stop smiling at each other. I think this must be the taste of love, sweet to the point of cloying yet incredibly attractive, making one yearn for it.

Lovers reuniting after a long time, chatting and video calling on the phone every day, can only see but not touch each other. All the suppressed emotions will erupt in a moment, wanting to hug each other, feel each other’s presence, and experience each other’s warmth and emotional release.

When someone you haven’t seen in a long time, greets you with an uncontrollable smile and embraces you, looking at you with eyes full of sparkle, then they must truly love you, considering you as a part of their life.

Endless words, unable to find a conclusion but not wanting it to end

Psychological studies have shown that humans, in moments of extreme excitement and happiness, involuntarily express themselves through habits and behaviors.

After a long separation, at this moment, he not only smiles happily but also talks non-stop, not only as a way to express his emotions but also to repeatedly confirm, “I am indeed back, you are indeed by my side, I am not dreaming.”

This behavior is hard to control. At the sight of you, the hormones and excitement rush to the brain. At this moment, he lacks the ability to think and just wants to instinctively do what he wants to do for you.

Just like Shakespeare said, “At the right moment, in a romantic place, speak softly to her.” So, at this moment, this is the right time, the most romantic place, the voice that best represents my love for you, expressing how much I miss you and how much I love you.

After a long separation, being able to excitedly talk to you non-stop and wanting to converse with you, the person must love you to the extreme, fearing that the next moment might be a dream.

Politely smile, peacefully go home together

Psychology says that no matter how well someone acts or how fake their words are, the eyes never lie. Microexpressions in psychology are studied in detail.

I can smile and pretend I miss you too, give you a light hug, then carry the luggage home without a word, or remain silent. I feel like I don’t have to say anything; you will feel his remaining affection for you. Liking someone cannot be hidden; all your actions and words will inadvertently reveal it.

My uncle has always worked out of town, only returning home during holidays. When my aunt and I went to pick him up from the train, their conversation was plain and simple, “Back already?” “Yes, back.” “Feeling cold?” “Not really”…like plain water, the conversation was so awkward that no one wanted to speak. As expected, a couple of years later, my uncle got divorced and remarried within a few months.

In love, without warmth, it is destined to end sadly. My aunt loved my uncle deeply, but his indifferent attitude made her unable to move forward.

Zhang Ailing once said, “When you love someone, you should let them know. Perhaps one day, you will lose them forever.” Regardless of whether the ending is sad, at least showing your emotions will resonate with his feelings.

For those couples reuniting after a long separation, if the meeting is as calm as water, then the parting is not far off. With these signs, if you don’t want to separate, you must pull out all the stops, care, and be attentive, making him feel your love and how precious it is, trying to save this marriage. Regardless of the outcome, at least you tried your best.