In my opinion, love is a one-on-one relationship, naturally possessive and exclusive. Everyone hopes for loyalty in love, and in this fast-paced era, faithful love seems to be a luxury.
Many people doubt whether their partner truly likes them. Especially for long-distance relationships or lovers with different family backgrounds or ages, there is often a lack of a sense of security in love, and there is always a concern about the partner’s loyalty.
So, how can we tell if the other person is faithfully in love with you?
Not always sticking together, but you are the only one in his heart
Sarah is a woman with a lot of insecurity. In her two previous failed relationships, she played the role of “the one who constantly asks where her partner is.” This behavior didn’t verify the partner’s loyalty. Instead, it overly exposed her neediness and made her partner feel suffocated. True loyalty is not about always being together, but about considering each other as the only one in your heart.
Most of the time, men are quite rational and goal-oriented. However, when a man is willing to accompany you doing things that he finds boring, such as helping you cook or going shopping together, it shows that he truly cares about you and values the time spent with you. Even the most successful men have a childlike side that they only show to the ones they truly care about.
When a man feels down because you didn’t reply to his message, constantly reminds you to be safe when you go out, or acts differently and nervously in front of you, that is the best indication of his faithfulness.
Talking to you every day and sharing everything with you doesn’t necessarily mean loyalty.
Taking action and responsibility for love
Most men are not good at expressing their emotions, but their actions of love towards you cannot be hidden.
He may try to change some bad habits for you, remember important dates and things related to you, and show his care for you in various ways. Even if he doesn’t have much time to be with you, he remembers every word you say.
In life, there are many things to juggle. You may have your own home, children, and various family matters, and he may not be able to take care of you meticulously. But in his actions, he always puts you first: thinking of fun and delicious things for you first, sacrificing something he likes for something you need…
Every sacrifice he makes for you and your family, without complaints or fanfare, shows his loyalty to you and your relationship.
Letting down his guard with you
I have always believed that a man’s true love for a woman is not necessarily reflected in his sophistication and maturity, but more in his complete trust and innocence with her.
Even if he is a respected manager or a powerful investor outside, once he is with you, he becomes a pure and carefree person. This shows that you are the person closest to his heart. When he can be real and not always perfect in front of you, that is also where his loyalty lies.
Maintaining a distance with the opposite sex
Everyone has opposite-sex friends to some extent, but men in a relationship will deliberately maintain a certain distance from the opposite sex to show their loyalty. This is not only reflected in their interactions with the opposite sex but also in other details, such as:
Updating intimate couple photos on social media;
Telling you about any conversations with female friends and their relationship with him;
Sticking close to you in public and not praising other women in front of you…
He is willing to handle the boundaries between men and women for you and knows how to ease your anxieties.
Love is based on understanding and trust, and the most taboo thing is testing and suspicion.
To know if a man is loyal to you, you need to genuinely feel and experience it in your daily interactions. When you can confirm the above four aspects, you won’t make the same mistake as Sarah.
Don’t always cling to external evidence to prove whether someone loves you, and don’t easily doubt their loyalty.
It’s easy to fall in love, but it’s hard to maintain it. Cherish it while you have it.