The term “leftover women” is common nowadays.

As the saying goes: “Marriage is like a walled city, with those outside wanting in and those inside wanting out.”

People nowadays take marriage seriously and are unwilling to settle or rush into it.

You might often hear people say, “She’s 30 and still not married, being too picky will leave her single.”

Are women who are still unmarried at 30 really too picky? Not really.

Every woman wants to find her true love and won’t settle for less.

Socrates once said, “In marriage, if you get a good wife, you’ll be happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.”

Whether a man marries a woman or a woman marries a man, a good marriage brings happiness, while a bad one brings misery.

When it comes to love, don’t force it, but take responsibility for marriage. Don’t marry just for the sake of it; follow your heart to find true happiness.

In reality, as women age and gain experience, their inner selves mature.

What young women may have wanted can change with age. It’s not about material things; true love can’t be measured in money.

So, what kind of men do 30-year-old women really like? Let’s hear from these three ladies:

Miss Ford, 32, Single

Miss Ford is still single because she hasn’t found someone she truly likes and her busy career limits her interactions.

Regarding relationships, she says, “I have bread, all I need is love. I don’t care about a luxurious life; a loving heart is more than enough for me.”

As a company CEO, she values stability, loyalty, and a man’s sense of responsibility in marriage.

Miss Wegner, 30, Married

I’ve been married to my husband for three years. I initially admired his sense of responsibility and care, but things changed after marriage.

I regret rushing into marriage due to family pressure, as his care lessened over time. He neglects household chores and our child, focusing on games instead.

Despite arguments, I tolerated for the child’s sake. If given a choice, I wouldn’t marry him again. I refuse to spend my life in such a marriage.

Miss Jones, 37, Divorced

Miss Jones has been divorced for seven years and remains single.

Post-divorce, she feels liberated. Despite initial fears, life without him is better. She focused on entrepreneurship post-divorce, finding fulfillment in her career.

She believes one must love themselves before loving others. Her failed marriage made her cautious. She values financial stability in a man and holds high standards for herself and her partner.

30-year-old women are more mature and elegant compared to their younger selves. They’ve experienced life’s ups and downs, becoming more considerate in love and life.

They understand how to care and cherish, making them cautious in relationships and marriage. For a mature woman, a man’s sense of responsibility is crucial. Love may need bread, but at 30, women know how to fight for their happiness. Thus, a man’s affection becomes vital, requiring emotions beyond the ordinary.

Each woman is unique, with her distinct charm. Women become gentler when loved, and any temperamental behavior is often triggered by a man.

Men who understand how to nurture a marriage offer women endless affection. Cherish and love sincerely to receive abundant rewards.

In the face of marriage, cherish it dearly. Embrace love generously and be your best self to love others. May everyone approach marriage with caution.